Station 4: Escalation of Violence
«How did it come to this?» Domestic violence develops gradually. In most cases, it starts with emotional abuse.
Emotional abuse leads to dependency, low self-esteem, fear, isolation, feelings of guilt and shame, hopelessness, and often causes health problems. Emotional abuse is often underestimated, but many victims suffer the consequences of this form of violence for years after separating from their abuser.
Over time, the relationship can also become a place where physical and sexualized violence becomes normalized. Many victims blame themselves. This is often because perpetrators tend to hold victims responsible for the violence, even making them feel as though they deserved it.
Violence is never okay.
Victims are never to blame.
Violence doesn't just «happen». Violence is a choice.
This remains true even when great remorse is shown after an incident.
Short films by Brisons le Silence
How can violence escalate? The animated short films by Brisons le Silence powerfully depict personal stories of individuals affected by domestic violence. During the tour, the videos «Camille Bovey» and «Estelle Gattlen» will be shown. Click here to watch the videos.
Trigger Warning: These videos contain depictions and descriptions of domestic violence. Please only watch them if you feel ready.
After the Violence Comes the Apology
Continue to Station 5: «Remorse and Affection».
Exploring Bern? You can also find Station 5 at: Nordic & Friends, Thunstrasse 16, 3005 Bern.